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First week in Bali

7/5/2013

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I arrived to my little house behind BS about a week ago. It is lovely to hear birds all day today in the communal compound shared with Eka's family, during my day off. It smells of incense and I have made my morning ginger tea. I don't mind waking at 6am from the sounds of roosters and dogs, because I fall to sleep usually around 8pm when not working at the clinic. So far, it has been a pleasure to get to know the midwives, rub their backs, see how everything works around the clinic. I observed one woman's labor and another woman's birth on my first weekend here.  And this past week I assisted another woman in labor for a full day. It was a beautiful connection and I felt so at home supporting her with massage, and including her partner in my care and attention. Whapio, my holistic midwifery teacher, calls it TEA- time, energy and attention.  This is the work I provide, and this is what I love.

The Indonesian midwives ask me if I am here to train like the other midwife students here getting their "numbers" for midwifery school back in the states. I say, no not really, although I am here to learn and grow, and provide what I know, and experience this new way and culture. I did learn yesterday from my new American midwife friend Andrea, how to moxa a woman's feet in labor. That was rad. And I do get excited about taking blood pressure and heart tones at some point, when the time feels right. In general though, I am the doula, and it feels explosively right. I feel like a life doula, all the time.

It is a gift to be here, to watch the rhythm of the Indonesian midwives, to be accepted by them, taken in, welcomed, and in return I honor their ways and truths daily. To be with woman, does not equal, to be with midwife. It is to be with woman. So to be with anyone, is to hear them, see them, feel them. Not to expect them to be with you. In this way, I sit with these midwives just as I sit with my clients in NY. Seeing them unique, beautiful, in their own way, and worthy of respect.

I am a midwife in my own heart, but to begin to speak with labels just doesn't sit right with me. I am a woman, who works with woman, and women, and men too, and I embody this work as LOVE, love in its fullest meaning and potential. Where love's origin lives, I sit with woman, and there only.
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Michele
7/6/2013 08:14:22 am

Erica, reading your post brings me back to the early mornings in Bali, the dogs, the roosters, the smell of incense as the people blessed the new day coming in. Sending you love and positive energy through the airwaves across the world as you embrace this journey you are on being with women in new and different settings.
Michele

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Carole
7/6/2013 09:00:53 am

Yes Michele I remember well when you were there too! I am so so grateful you got to experience birth in Bali before becoming a most excellent nurse...💖

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Carole
7/6/2013 09:01:07 am

Yes Michele I remember well when you were there too! I am so so grateful you got to experience birth in Bali before becoming a most excellent nurse...

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Carole
7/6/2013 08:58:28 am

Ah Erica I see and hear and feel all you say... So beautiful you are and the kind hearted Balinese people... A precious gift to you to them to us... The world is complete... Love you so!!! Carole

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